About Michelle
Michelle Mondia, founder of the Thin Veil, is a death midwife of over ten years shifting the practice away from fear, isolation, and detachment towards promoting a deep connection to the end-of-life experience, where dignity, care, and emotional and spiritual support are at the forefront.
Michelle’s origin story as a death midwife started when, at 5 years old, she bore witness to how an entire village in the Philippines cared for her dying great-grandmother. This deep knowing was reignited after she gave birth to her two children at home with the help of a birth midwife, an experience that made her reflect on continuing the tender, loving, and sacred way of guiding someone at the other end of life’s spectrum.
She has since developed a practice that weaves in the practical aspect of dying while holding all the mystery death brings. Michelle sees her role as someone who helps slow down time and create space for the dying and their loved ones, enabling them to thin the veil and experience how to live into dying.
While Michelle is dedicated to empowering individuals and families to reclaim the end-of-life process, she’s also very aware that deep inequities exist in death and dying. In 2023, Michelle was awarded a Voqal Partners fellowship laying the foundation for the Death Workers’ Alliance, an organization bringing together EOL practitioners committed to working with and in marginalized communities on issues around end-of-life care.
Qualifications
Certified by Sacred Crossings Death Midwifery Program
Art of Thanatology certificate, NY Open Center
Course completion of Herbal Support for EOL care with Sage Mountain Botanicals
Foundations in Contemplative Care, NY Zen Center
Foundation Studies in Anthroposophy, Rudolf Steiner College
Masters in Public Health, Boston University
B.A Psychology University of CA Berkeley
Member of INELDA and NEDA
License funeral director (in progress)
What is a death doula?
Why use the terms "doula" or "midwife" to describe this work?
The skilled midwife navigates both sides of the threshold, maintaining safety for the soul entering or leaving and also the mother at birth and the bereaved at death.
The International End-of Life Doula Association defines an end-of-life doula as follows:
End-of-life doulas provide companionship, comfort, and guidance to those facing a terminal illness or death... We offer resources to help the dying person, along with their family and loved ones, make informed decisions in a supportive environment.
What is a death "doula" or "midwife"?